Pattern 28

Sensitive memory by permission

Make persistent memory specific, inspectable and reversible.

Research-informed design proposal

Concrete takeaway

Default to the memory behaviour stated by the product.

Choose an approach

These are editorial decision conditions to validate. Some alternatives are successive states or can be combined; they are not always exclusive choices.

AlternativeUse whenTradeoff or requirement
A · Continue without savingSaving is unnecessary or declinedContinuity may be lower but participation remains complete
B · Review proposed memoryA specific memory could help laterThe exact wording and scope require review
C · Memory libraryThe person reviews stored memoryDeletion limits and derived data must be clear

The problem

A personal disclosure can be stored invisibly and later reappear in an unexpected recommendation or opening message.

The pattern

Default to the memory behaviour stated by the product. Before any optional durable memory, show the exact proposed wording and purpose. Offer edit, decline, view and delete. Establish categories the product will not retain and rules for sensitive reuse.

Compare the alternatives

Make persistent memory specific, inspectable and reversible.

A · Continue without saving

Assistant · Example interface
This conversation
No optional personal memory has been added.
Continue this conversation

The current conversation does not require durable memory.

B · Review proposed memory

Assistant · Example interface
Proposed memory
Exact wording and intended use.
Edit before saving
Save this item
Do not save

A specific item and purpose can be accepted or declined.

C · Memory library

Assistant · Example interface
Saved memories
Saved item
Wording, purpose and date.
Edit this memory
Delete this memory

Saved items remain visible and manageable.

Original wireframe proposals · No live controls · Grey rows represent schematic text, not loading states · Labelled placeholders are not Scripture quotations

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Failure modes

Inferring denomination or health status; saving everything as personalisation; bundling memory, training and sharing; surprising users with a past loss.

Bible and faith considerations

Religious beliefs and health information can be special-category data. A toggle alone does not establish a lawful processing basis.

What to validate

Test declining, editing, deleting and later reuse. Verify the interface promise against storage, derived profiles, logs and retention processes.

Evidence status

Research-informed design proposal. These visual alternatives have not been tested with users in this atlas. Source findings, documented behaviour and this proposed adaptation are different kinds of evidence.

Sources and adaptation

This card is an original design synthesis. The following sources inform its content distinctions, interaction approach or review requirements; they do not validate the whole pattern.

Common scenarios and flows

Examples in use

Attributed app evidence with dates and review limits. A screenshot illustrates an implementation; it does not establish that the proposal works for every audience.

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Design principles in this decision

Editorial application of Missional by Design. These values frame review questions; they do not validate a pattern’s effectiveness.

Compare alternatives using the task and evidence above. Record competing needs instead of treating a principle as an automatic verdict.

Regional applicability

Design review questions · 5 October 2026. These prompts identify possible triggers; they do not classify this pattern or every faith app as a regulated service.

Where do prayer, religious, health and audio data actually go? Review memory, model-provider access, logs, analytics, training and exports as separate data flows; a private-looking screen is not a data policy.

Start with EU and Germany, then review the relevant market:

Use the jurisdiction decision guide to record the trigger, source version and resulting product requirement.